Ghanaian sex coach, Dzifa Sweetness, has given reasons why some women fake orgasms during sexual intercourse.
In an interview with Adwen-the Love Doctor on eTV Ghana’s adult edutainment show, ‘In Bed with Adwen’, she explained that most times, men like to wait till the woman has reached orgasm before they climax.
However, when the man is not good at it, the woman is unable to reach orgasm and the more he goes, the more it hurts the lady, hence, she has to fake an orgasm so he can also reach climax and stop.
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Also, women who have been circumcised cannot reach orgasm because their main sensitive organ which is the clitoris, has been cut off. In this case, when the woman is tired, she would be forced to fake an orgasm just so the man can leave her to rest.
Dzifa furthered, “Some women are shy to tell their partners that they have never had an orgasm and do not know how it feels like, but because they have heard us say on this show that there’s something like orgasm, they try to fake it just to please their partners’’.
She furthered that, absence of love can also be a reason for a woman faking an orgasm. According to her, when a woman is not in love with the person she is having sex with, but is only indulging for financial or other personal reasons, it is very unlikely that she will have a real orgasm since she is not enjoying the sex for what it is, but for its purpose.
By: Maureen Dedei Quaye