Expert Ghanaian sex coach, Dzifa Sweetness, has shared some things that both men and women should know before they decide to break their virginity or their partner’s.
Interviewed by host, Justice Boakye Danquah, popularly known as Adwen the Love Doctor on Ghana’s favourite adult edutainment show ‘In Bed with Adwen’ which airs on eTV Ghana, she advised that any man who gets a girlfriend who is a virgin and wants to break her virginity must have patience.
“Before you break a lady’s virginity, you need to put a lot of things in place. The location is important, the mentality of the lady and how prepared she is. You need to talk to her about it and be sure that she is mentally ready before you initiate any such act”, she urged.
Dzifa continued that, “You shouldn’t just say that because you’ve gotten a virgin, you’re just going to take her into a corner and break her virginity. Also, you need to respond. You need to get to a certain age and have a certain level of maturity before you even think of breaking yours or another person’s virginity”.
According to her, when someone is not mentally, emotionally and in every possible way ready for this, the experience could leave a negative perception in his or her mind about sex and they may end up disliking sex for the rest of their lives, hence it should be of mutual consent and under good conditions.
By: Maureen Dedei Quaye