Turn-offs are things that women do, sometimes even unconsciously that make their partners lose interest for as long as it keeps up.
Knowing that it would interest women to find out some things they do that happen to be turn-offs for their men, eTV Ghana took it upon itself to discuss this topic on the Men’s Lounge show where men have the platform to openly share their views on particular topics.
Kosi Fidlau, a Public Speaker and Master of Ceremonies shared on the show, some of the men’s biggest turn-offs in a woman. He started by laying bare his observation that some women have inscribed in their minds certain perceptions about men which they carry through every relationship they ever get into.
“You meet women who tell you every man cheats or men are scum. By virtue of those perceptions, they would always put you in a certain bracket and that is a major turn-off for men. Other times, you don’t even have to prove anything.
You meet a girl and she is utterly suspicious of you because she feels that every man is supposed to cheat. Once a man finds that out, as much as he may be committed, he’s disappointed and it’s a major turn-off for men because at the end of the day, it takes away our peace of mind”, he said.
Going from the emotional to the physical, he emphasized that every man loves it when his woman looks good, hence doing the direct opposite of this and being unconcerned about looks is a total turn-off for men.
“Every man wants his woman to look good. Wear the amazing stuff, look good at home, look good in the bedroom and everywhere”, the public speaker advised.
By: Maureen Dedei Quaye