Expert sex coach, Dzifa Sweetness has warned ladies not to tell the exact number of sexual partners or exes they have had when they get into a new relationship.
Speaking on eTV Ghana’s adult show ‘In Bed with Adwen’, she noted that it is important to talk about each other’s past when in a new relationship however, not every detail must be given.
According to Dzifa, having a relationship or sexual history with someone does not necessarily mean they should be counted as an ex or past sexual partner. She also added that some women at some point in their lives may engage in one-time sexual activities and all these are not important, hence should not be counted when they are asked in a new relationship how many sexual partners or exes they have had.
“Life is a long journey with lots of issues. There will be speed ramps, potholes, rough roads and tarred roads and that is just how relationships are. No one wishes to sleep with ten or more guys before meeting the right man but things happen so when it does, you don’t need to count it all.
You could meet someone today and be deeply in love, have sex with the person and the next day, things don’t work out so you just move on. Must you count all this?”, the sex coach quizzed.
She concluded, again urging women to be selective in their counting and state the ‘important ones only.
By: Maureen Dedei Quaye