Since the day the identity of the 29-year-old player of a PL Club based in London became public, many back home have raised questions about dating or marrying Oyibo girls (white chicks). Some have quizzed why our brothers who get to the very top don’t learn any lessons from the past. That will be for another day. My interest today is that,there seem to be a general perception that only these white chicks get us in trouble. If you take a closer look ,you will realize that our very own cause the most damage to our brothers.
The 26 year old was sentenced to 32 months in prison after being found guilty of two cases of statutory rape of an under-aged Ghanaian girl in Sweden. Ghanaian parents and a girl did this,not Oyibo.
What our brother went through is well documented. How he fathered kids that were not his for many years. Once again it was a Ghanaian not some white opportunist .
In 2014 an Accra high court granted the wishes of Henrietta, wife of John for divorce. The couple had been married for 14 years with four kids. Henrietta cited infidelity, Not caring for the kids and abuse as her reasons.
Was also divorced by his ex wife citing abuse and infidelity. Unfortunately Paintsil lost a lot of his properties in the process.
And the list is endless, my point is that relationship or marriage is a complex thing and marrying or dating your kind does not make it any less complicated.
Kofi Anna married Oyibo woman, Christian Atsu is still married to an Oyibo girl and nothing happened or at least nothing has happened yet 😂😂😂
Enjoy life, find love and be smart about it, don’t let the big man decide for you. Life is not all about sex. Peace out