Relationship Consultant and Family Advocate, Kelly Daniels, has mentioned some mistakes men make and how they affect their relationships.
According to him, the major mistake the average man makes is always thinking his woman is below him. To him, that line of thought is false and grossly wrong.
He explained that in no capacity is it true that a man’s wife is beneath him.
Speaking to Nana Yaw Odame on e.tv Ghana’s ‘Men’s Lounge’ show, he said, “When a man thinks and leaves the mental consciousness that the woman is beneath him, the woman’s capacity to be a helper diminishes by the day.”
Talking as a Christian counselor he stated that everyone needs a helper, especially men and this is why God after creating man created woman as a helper to him.
“This is why in the Bible, God said it’s not good for Adam to be alone so he made him a helper suitable for him who is Eve. So, it means there’s a kind of woman that best fits the kind of man you’ve been wired to be,” he explained.
He emphasized that men are yet to understand it from this perspective because if they did, they did, some will not rant about not needing women.
“Why would God say you need a helper if you’re that strong. As long as you need a helper, you’re not as strong as you claim. So,a helper cannot be under you, a helper is your support system and a go to person. Most at times they know you more than you know yourself and this does not happen only when the woman does not know her role,” he said.
Kelly added that another mistake men do to destroy their relationships is to think that the male is not wired for domestics.
“That’s also another wrong opinion if you want to have a woman in your life and you put them beneath you. Doing that means they’re not up to who you are and that’s wrong. Men should work in these if they want their relationships to work,” he advised.
By: Gyamfuah Owusu-Ackom
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