A profound communicator, award-winning media personality and global customer care expert Dzifa Abequaye Gray, has shared in an interview that it is not good to be abusive in a relationship.
She made mention that, before someone becomes abusive, it is because of what they’ve been through in life, and also some people do that in defence of themselves. Sometimes things happen and you have to defend your self.
However, if you are not careful, you might end up losing your self. You would overreact and if care is not taken, you will either be beaten or sent to prison.
“I can guarantee that if you and I should visit Nsawam or any other prisons to talk to females who are currently there, maybe 50% if not more will confirm that it is due to overreaction or been upset ended them there”, she said.
She advised that you have to be careful, abusing is not only when you are hitting someone. Things like that happen between men and women mostly, it a horrible reaction.
Whether you are a man or a woman, to hit someone especially in relationships is not good, so you have to be very careful.
“When you are into somebody, you care for the person and they hurt you, they provoke you and have no intentions of admitting to their faults or give any reasonable reason for that matter, it can be very painful but the best thing to do is to walk out of that relationship”, she said.
By: Doreenda Abbey