Harry Boo, a professional nail technician, has talked about whether or not it is possible for one to determine if someone is going through a heartbreak phase.
Heartbreak, as she explained it, is the feeling that one gets when someone they are in a romantic relationship with decides to quit or leave the relationship. This, she said, is the general definition that people usually give to heartbreak, however, she believes there is more to it and it is not only limited to romantic relationships.
“Sometimes, just a friend can give you a heartbreak without you necessarily being in a relationship with them. You can put your hope or trust in someone or expect highly to get something but at the end of the day, if you don’t get it, that is also heartbreak”, she said.
Answering the question at hand, she noted that it is going to be very difficult for one to know or figure out if someone is heartbroken because people deal with such situations differently. According to her, even if the person appears unusually sad, there is no way to tell that they are going through a heartbreak unless they actually say so because it could be something else they are sad about.
Using herself as an example, Harry Boo confessed that when she is heartbroken, she takes the time to cry as much as she needs to let out the emotion and once she lets go, she is totally done with whoever caused her that pain.
However, some people prefer to bottle up their pain or resort to several others methods preferable to them, therefore, people only need to check up regularly on their friends so that if they happen to be in any such situation, they are able to help them out of it before they get suicidal.
By: Maureen Dedei Quaye